Summary
- Chandler's declaration of love for Monica highlights the relief and excitement he feels about their relationship.
- Chandler's realization that he wants to spend his life with Monica is a heartfelt moment that solidifies their bond.
- Monica's decision to prioritize her relationship with Chandler over her dream of having a biological child shows the depth of their love.
The best Chandler and Monica quotes from Friends highlight why theirs was truly the MVP relationship on the show. Ross and Rachel were given more attention, with a romance that goes right from the pilot to the finale, but the relationship that formed between Chandler and Monica was sweeter because the audience saw them as friends for so long. Seeing how that relationship grew into something more was one of the best arcs in the series and made for some heartwarming and funny quotes from the duo.
With the sad ing of Matthew Perry, the romance between Chandler and Monica has been revisited by many fans as it gave Chandler some of his best moments as a character. From the moments where the couple faces their doubts together to their offering each other to declaring their love for each other, these Chandler and Monica quotes from Friends provide some beautiful memories to look back on.
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15 “Because I’m In Love With Monica! I Love Her. That’s Right. I Love Her! I Love Her! I Love You, Monica.”
Chandler - The One Where Everybody Finds Out (Season 5, Episode 14)
The entire saga of Monica and Chandler trying to keep their relationship a secret from the others makes for some of the funniest moments in the series, especially when Phoebe comes on to Chandler as a way of pushing him to reveal the relationship. However, while the others assume this is just a random fling, Chandler ultimately surrenders by declaring his love for her. It is a moment that shows the relief and excitement he has that he can finally tell everyone just how much he loves her.
14 "I Got To See What My Life Would Be Like Without You."
Chandler - The One With Ross's Step Forward (Season 8, Episode 11)
There is another hilarious Monica-Chandler moment when they have to lie about their relationship, but for a very different reason. When Chandler's rude and obnoxious boss invites the couple out, Monica refuses and Chandler decides to lie and say they broke up. The plan backfires as his boss takes Chandler on a night of drinking and strip clubs. However, there is a surprisingly sweet moment when Chandler returns home and makes Monica promise to never actually leave him, as he caught a glimpse of that reality and did not like it at all.
13 "It Was a Fight. You Deal With It And You Move On."
Monica - The One Hundreth (Season 5, Episode 3)
Chandler had several relationships before dating Monica, but none of them were very successful. As a result, he didn't really know the realities of an adult relationship. Early in their dating, Chandler and Monica have a fight with Chandler fearing that this means the end of their relationship. However, Monica assures him that's not how adult relationships really work and that what they have built is stronger than the occasional disagreement. Differences come up in every relationship, so Monica teaching Chandler that they just move on from those moments is a sign that this is the most mature relationship he's been a part of and therefore a sweet Chandler and Monica quote.
12 "While Monica And I Were Dancing to Them, It Was the First Time I Knew That You Were the Woman That I Wanted To Dance All My Dances With."
Chandler - The One With The Cheap Wedding Dress (Season 7, Episode 17)
Another instance when Monica's plans for her perfect wedding are tested is when she discusses the music for the special day. While Chandler insists on having a specific band play, she realizes that a cheaper option, like a DJ, would allow her more money to spend on her dress. However, Chandler then explains that he has chosen this band because of the sweet memory he associates with their music and his relationship with Monica. It is a reminder that, despite Monica having big plans for their wedding, it is a special day for Chandler as well, solidifying his love for her.
11 "It's A Four."
Chandler - The One In Vegas (Season 5, Episode 24)
While in Las Vegas, Chandler and Monica get carried away with betting on a craps game. With the stakes getting higher and higher, Chandler suggests they get married if Monica rolls an eight. While one of the dice reads four on the table, the second falls off and teeters between four and five. However, showing that his idea to marry Monica was not just an impulsive whim and was actually something he was choosing, he made the decision that it was a four. While it is fun to let fate make choices, this quote shows he doesn't take chances when it comes to his relationship with Monica.
10 "You Make Me Happier Than I Ever Thought I Could Be And If You Let Me, I Will Spend The Rest Of My Life Trying To Make You Feel The Same Way."
Chandler - The One with the Proposal (Season 6, Episode 24)
One of the best proposal scenes in TV history is when Monica and Chandler propose to each other. The scene was so heartfelt and emotional in taking their relationship to the next exciting stage. In the scene, Monica tries to propose, but she breaks down and starts crying. Chandler takes over the proposal, bearing his heart in a way he rarely has before. He not only acknowledges how happy she makes him but also vows to do the same for her for the rest of their lives. It is a wonderful way to approach spending the rest of their life together, as Chandler is able to recognize it's a relationship of giving and receiving.
9 "Sorry. You're Not Easygoing, You're ionate. And They Can Say You're High Maintenance, But It's Okay Because I Like Maintaining You."
Chandler - "The One with the Joke" (Season 6, Episode 12)
Monica can often seem to be the dominant personality in their relationship, but this great Monica-Chandler quote suggests that is exactly how Chandler wants it. When Monica's friends accuse her of being high-maintenance and make her feel bad about it, Chandler provides sweet and reassuring words. He does not deny the fact that she does require a lot of work but makes her see why that makes them so ideal. He likes having to work to keep her happy and is able to rise to the occasion to be the type of person she needs. It is a great example of couples recognizing flaws in each other, and embracing them rather than trying to change them.
8 "When I Proposed, I Said I Would Do Anything To Make You Happy, And If Having The Perfect Wedding Will Make You Happy, Then That's What We'll Do."
Chandler - The One With Rachel's Book (Season 7, Episode 2)
Many of the best Monica and Chandler quotes come from the buildup to their wedding. Given her personality, it is not surprising that Monica has always dreamed of her wedding day, and she had elaborate plans to make it as perfect as possible. At first, Chandler gets stressed since they are the ones financing it and have no help from their parents. However, he knows how much it means to Monica, so he is ready to cancel his retirement plans and give Monica a perfect wedding day if that's what she wants. It's such a sweet gesture because it shows that nothing is more important to Chandler than Monica's long-term happiness.
7 "I Don't Want A Big Fancy Wedding. I Want Everything You Just Said. I Want A Marriage."
Monica - The One With Rachel's Book (Season 7, Episode 2)
Even though Chandler decides to use all his savings to give Monica her perfect wedding, when Monica hears his plans for their future and what he really wants to do with his savings, she relents. Monica understands that what Chandler has planned for their future is so much better than just a perfect wedding day. While she had been waiting for this one day for most of her life, Chandler helps her to realize that it is what comes after that day, their entire life together, that is really special.
6 "And Now, Here We Are ...With Our Future Before Us … And I Only Want To Spend It With You, My Prince, My Soul Mate, My Friend."
Monica - "The One with Monica and Chandler's Wedding" (Season 7, Episode 23)
In a show where the friendship of the core fix characters was so important, putting Monica and Chandler together was a risk. However, that journey from friends to a married couple worked so well and Monica's vows highlight them. Monica tells Chandler how she always wanted to find "the one," not knowing that she would find him in her friend. Monica openly expresses that Chandler is the one for her, despite how unlikely it may have seemed at first. Her highlighting that he is her friend at the center of it all cements how perfect their romance is for this series.
